i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.
we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.
yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.
I am an expert professional in the behavioral area. Please message me privately with the behaviors he exhibits, The spectrum in behavior is huge, so please do not self diagnose prematurely. Send me a private message consisting of what you observe, I may be able to help and guide you to possible help.
Thx
we are madly in love with each other and she is in the process of being divorced.
let me make one thing clear i'm not the reason for the divorce.
she attempted to reconcile with him but to no avail.
we are madly in love with each other and she is in the process of being divorced.
let me make one thing clear i'm not the reason for the divorce.
she attempted to reconcile with him but to no avail.
She will feel happy for a month or two. Then, when she gets used to you, she will miss her family that will not speak to her. She will miss her whole tight circle of JW friends. They will not speak to her or acknowledge her. They consider this a loving arrangement. Depression will set in, and she will eventually blame you for everything, even though you may not be the cause. If you go into this, prepare for horrible events to come your way. So sorry to tell you this, but it always happens. If you end up marrying her, I advise you enroll in psychology classes to keep you sane and knowledgable on who you really are. Prepare for psychological sessions with a professional for both of you. If she is mentally strong, then she should be able to forget her family and the circle of friends she has been culturing all her life, this will take years, many years. You will need grand patience if you sentence yourself to years of personal grief, and negative emotional stress. Pray to whoever you believe in, that she does not become suicidal. My opinion? Do not get dragged into this, and just keep her as a friend, or girlfriend that lives separately from you. Give her support and treat her like a human being, even during the times that she grows to loath you for taking her family, and friends. People always tend to place fault on others, when they ruin themselves, and if she stays in the JW disorganization, then she will grow to blame you and consider you the filth of the earth, in her eyes, you will die in Armagedon. They are right, this is a Cult! Value yourself for the good person that you are and don't adopt problems.
So sorry and welcome
local jehovahs witnesses kingdom hall attacked, man arrested.
posted: oct 19, 2015 9:00 am mdtby anthony j. garcia.
brian oatman.
Brian OatmanOne man is in jail after an attack on a Waco place of worship.
Police were called out to the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses around 4:30 on Saturday afternoon.
According to police, Brian Oatman had refused to leave the Kingdom Hall after being asked. Instead, police say Oatman went out into the parking lot, broke into a car, grabbed a tire iron, and began smashing cars.
Two elders of the Kingdom Hall went outside to try and stop Oatman, but he quickly turned his attack on to them. One elder was cut and the other was knocked to the ground.
Police arrived and were able to take Oatman into custody, charging him with multiple counts of criminal mischief, aggravated assault and burglary.
http://www.kxxv.com/story/30294512/local-jehovahs-witnesses-kingdom-hall-attacked-man-arrested
how many of us were woken up by some apostate yelling false prophets at a convention?.
how many of us were woken up by someone holding a sign and yelling, what happened to 1975.
how many of us were coerced to investigate the wt because some ex-jw pulled up a bunch of old watchtowers magazines and told us to read the false predictions?.
lately my mental health has been rapidly declining.
i have anorexia and deppression, and my anxiety has become overwhelming.
i have been to many doctors/therapists in the past, but because i have not been magically cured my parents dont want to get me any more help.
From my psychological stand point. I can tell you that anyone seeking psychological and psychiatrical help needs to really want change. For this, only that person can understand what past experiences hinder or hurt them. If this is a neurological/chemical misbalance , then seek the proper medication or natural supplementation to assist in the issues, from a professional. Only you will know what your body needs to feel better. A psychologist can help you reach an understanding of what direction you need. This is accomplished through as many sessions as you personally need. Nothing can be reached with only a few visits. This is a process due to your personal needs. Don't give up visiting the true psychological professionals. If you don't have the monetary backing for this, then seek services that are available for free through governmental assistance. Don't give up and you are as worthy of living. P.S. please look up breathing exercises for anxiety.
cult flakes?.
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(welcome to the height of intellectual thread topics.
i am still serving as an elder but just hanging in there.
i think their quandry is that they don't see me out in the field, but when they need encouragement and decent prayer they come to me.. i just got off the phone to this poor sister who i have only met twice.
she is not even in my congregation (her sister is).
You sound very guilt written. What have you done Sir?
i just wanted to say that my dear 89 year old mom is terminally ill and will soon pass.
she is on morphine and hanging on.
she has been a devout witness for about 60 years and a wonderful mother.
Our Condolences Mam. :(
the councils of carthage, the council of trent, the first council of nicaea!.
gimme your thoughts?
The Councils of Carthage, The Council of Trent, The First Council of Nicaea!
Gimme your thoughts?
